Philippians 2:13 13for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.
Have you ever tried to break a bad habit on your own? You
probably found that when you tried to stop it by sheer
willpower, you saw improvement for a while, and then bounced
back to square one. Worse, you found yourself binging on the
very thing that you were trying not to do. And your condition
is worse than before you started your “I’m going to quit”
program!
The changes were temporary because it was you doing
it.
A church member who had been a chain-smoker used to believe
that with willpower, he could quit smoking. He would tell
himself, “If there is a will, there is a way!” But he
discovered that with willpower, he could stop smoking for a
week or two, and then he would succumb to the pull of nicotine
again.
When he turned his life over to God and learnt about God’s
grace, he told God, “I realize that I cannot stop smoking. I
cannot, but You can break my habit, Lord.” And every time he
lit up, he would say, “Lord, I am trying to stop smoking, but
I cannot. I am trusting You.” He would even say, “I am still
righteous because of Jesus’ blood.”
Well, in the very same year, all his cravings to smoke
vanished! When asked how he succeeded, he would say, “It is
entirely God and none of me! It is all by His grace.” This man
lost all the desire to smoke. That is true transformation.
When you receive the grace of God to do for you what you
cannot do, you will experience effortless and permanent change
on the inside, which in turn changes your actions on the
outside. The Bible tells us that God works in us to give us
both the will and ability to perform what He desires. It is
God who removes the old want to’s and gives us new ones. And
He even gives us the power to carry them out!
Beloved, look to His grace to do what you cannot do. Say,
“Lord, I cannot, but You can!” Then, what you experience will
not merely be behavior modification, but true and lasting
inward transformation!